Aveeno Men's Collection

I participated in a campaign on behalf of Dad Central Consulting for AVEENO. I received product samples and a promotional item as a thank you for participating.

Every guy goes through the tradition that is handed down from their father of learning how to shave. That happened to me many years ago (I won't say how many, ha!) and my shaving routine has largely stayed the same. The razors may change and the shaving cream may evolve into shave gel, but its always the same. Wet your face, later up, break out the razor and get rid of the unwanted hairs.

Normally I only put my face through this process once or twice a week depending on who I have to impress. Normally it's something I don't really enjoy, due to the way my skin feels after the shave and the frequent nicks and cuts. Well Dad Central Consulting sent me the Aveeno products to try them out and see how I liked them. I have always loved Aveeno products that my wife has bought, but now they have products just for Men! They are great!

I tried the Aveeno Men's products, they all feature the Active Naturals Oat ingredient which work to cleanse, moisturize and soothe Men;s sensitive skin. The Aveeno the Face Wash really helps to clean and exfoliate your face prior to shaving. The Aveeno Men's Shave Gel contains Vitamin E and Aloe to help soothe your skin, while my personal favorite, the Aveeno Men's After-Shave Lotion calms and soothes irritated skin by moisturizing the top two layers of the skin. I noticed my skin was smother and softer and I had no more nicks and cuts! Success!!

So guys if you want to get a great shave and healthier looking skin go and get the products from Aveeno Men's Active Naturals products, you will love them!!

Grandpa

Tuesday we laid Grandpa to rest. The funeral was a lot harder than I thought it would be. Here is what I said at the funeral:

Grandpa Denman

When I was in college I worked in the library in the reference section. One day I stumbled upon a book about English Surnames. I looked our family's name and there it was, a brief history and a big fancy family crest.  It said most people with the last name Denman could trace our family history back to a Baron in England. The crest had a motto, Prudentia et Constantia which means By Prudence and Constancy. In the dictionary the  words mean to be Prudent or Wise in practical matters and Constancy is to have the quality of being unchanging or unwavering, as in purpose, love or loyalty; firmness of mind; faithfulness.These seem to sum up Grandpa without him ever knowing this family motto.

Prudent

Grandpa was a wise man, I don't know how or where he acquired his wisdom but it was apparent when we needed it the most. The first example I can think of this was as a boy seeing Grandpa lead our church service on occasion when the pastor was gone.  I can recall his calm steady faithful voice leading the family in prayer before a holiday meal, oh how i wanted to be able to pray like that. 

I remember talking to Grandpa after I came home for Christmas the year Grandma passed away, and I had seen how much my Dad missed her, but Grandpa calmly and as a matter of fact stated he had a long talk with God and he was fine Grandma's passing. I however was not.  I had gone to training for my job, 6 months in Southeastern Georgia and I was stuck there at the time Grandma passed. It would be so expensive to fly back on such short notice and the thought of missing more than the allowable days would mean I would have to start the training over and I didn't know if they would let me. So I stayed there in Georgia, while my family laid her to rest. It is something to this day I still feel guilty about, something that I shouldn't have missed.  After the funeral I received a copy of funeral program and copies of what Jerry, Dad and Cindy read at her service.  Every year I take it out on January 31st, her birthday to honor and remember her. Why do I tell you that today when I should be talking about Grandpa? In 2005 Grandpa was on one of his cross country trips, and in January of that year he came and visited Sandy and myself. Grandpa stayed with his family members for usually about a week, wasn't much trouble just needed a place to stay, maybe an egg and toast for breakfast and just some of our time. The week he was there with us included January 31st.  Grandpa and I talked about Grandma and shared stories about this wonderful woman.  Grandpa didn't know it, but that helped me so much to let go to some of that guilt. I wish I had had a chance to thank him for how much that meant to me, and how it helped heal my heart.  Sometimes God doesn't send Angles, rather he sends somebody into your life at just the right time, just when you need it the most. That was why Grandpa was there for me.

Constancy

Grandpa was a model of consistency, for years many things about him never changed. His clothes, which always consisted of cowboy boots, cowboy hats, bolo ties and western suits. I loved those outfits! Grandpa was always riding his motorcycle in the warmer months  He still rode it when he was 84.  I'll never forget the picture of Grandpa, Dad and Jory all on their motorcycles.  Prior to Grandma's stroke, every summer off the two of them went to go camping, attached to the back were their matching bikes.  All of the Grandkids got to go camping with them, Craig and Jory probably went the most.  Grandpa was always working on different carpentry projects, anywhere from adding more trim around his house to helping build my parents house. When he got older he moved into management of these project, allowing his kids to do the project with the grandkids and just looking the entire project over and giving it the Norman seal of approval, right Dad? Every Christmas Eve, the annual tradition of eating oyster stew commences,  if you can call warmed whole milk, butter and oysters a stew. All i know is that every Christmas Eve you would see Grandpa, Jerry, Dad and Cindy sweating profusely as they ate bowl after bowl full.

Consistently Grandpa was there to give you a big smile and a hearty hug, that never changed in 40 plus years I knew him.

Conclusion

I was looking over what was read at Grandma's funeral and there is a small story that Cindy shared about how she and Grandma had been to a funeral and a family member of the deceased spoke and Cindy said she didn't know if she could do something like that.  Grandma just looked at her and said, you could.  So when the three kids planned for her funeral Cindy spoke up and informed the boys that she had to speak.  That story has been locked in my brain since I first read it.  When my Grandma Harms passed away I knew I had to speak.  And it wasn't even a question if I was going to speak today. I am the oldest Grandchild, I feel its my duty to help lead the grandkids in our celebration of Grandpa.

The family has received an number of thoughtful comments regarding Grandpa, how nice of a man he was, how they loved that twinkle in his eye, and how they have such wonderful memories of him.  That made me think of something Jerry said during Grandma's service.  Jerry read, Never again will we see the twinkle and love in her eyes; but forever we will feel the love she left in our hearts.  That exact quote applies to Grandpa as well.  Sunday was Father's Day and I got this little gift bag with a couple little cards with bible verses on it, a bookmark, and a mint.  The bookmark shows the word Fathers on it, and has a verse on it, 

Proverbs 22:6, Train up a child in the way he should go; and when he is old, he will not depart from it. 

There is a song called "Things My Father Said" and it echoes this same thought, the first verse includes:

The things my father said would make me a better man, 

hard work and the love of friends, a woman that understands. 

I hope my father knows the seeds we've sewn still grow,

At night I go to sleep and pray he's watching over me"

As you look at his three children and their spouses, eight grandchildren and 4 spouses, 12 great-grandchildren and one step great-grandchild, you can see that Grandpa taught us the way to go and his words were taken to heart.

Fin

During these last few weeks Grandpa had failing health, including trips to the DeSmet and Sioux Falls hospitals. He thankfully made it back to DeSmet nursing home in time where we were able to celebrate his 90th birthday with as many family members as that room could hold.  In that same Father's day bag on sunday was another card that had this verse on it:

Psalm 73:26  My health may fail, and my spirit may grow weak, but God remains the strength of my heart; He is mine forever.

I know today is filled with tears, but some are from us saying our earthly goodbyes to a man that was called Dad, Grandpa,  Great-Grandpa, brother, neighbor, and friend.  The rest are tears of joy we share for we know that Grandpa is now in heaven with our Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ.  We also know there was a beautiful reunion with his beloved wife of 56 years, Grandma Marg Denman.  I am sure they have the camper all set up, and are off on their bikes around the campground once again. We love and miss you Grandpa!

My Steakcation at LongHorn Steakhouse

I participated in a campaign on behalf of Dad Central Consulting for LongHorn Steakhouse. I received a gift card to facilitate my review and a promotional item as a thank-you for participating.


With Father's Day right around the corner, its time to decide what we will grill for dinner and eat outside on the deck. I love to fire up the grill and cook outside with my girls playing in the yard. But sometimes you don't know what you want to grill or want to take the time to do the prep work. Well thanks to LongHorn Steakhouse I got a chance to take a break from grilling and take a Steakcation!

One thing my family and I enjoy is going out to eat. The time spent prepping and cooking is instead used to talk, laugh and watch the girls color on their kids menu. We had never been to LongHorn Steakhouse before so we were excited to see what it looked like on the inside and see what deliciousness was on the menu. We had a hard time deciding what we wanted to eat, well Sandy and I did. We started off with the Spinach Artichoke Dip, it was hot a cheesy and went well with the chips, and some of the free honey wheat bread!

The girls stuck to their normal tastes by ordering hamburgers, although Jacey did get cheese on hers for once.

Sandy tried one one of the extremely huge salads, the Chicken Ranch House Cobb salad, wow that was big and looked delicious!

I had a very hard time deciding which steak to get, I finally decided on the 11 ounce New York Strip, with Mashed Potatoes and a Caesar side salad. I had it cooked Medium and it was perfect! Perfectly seasoned and no steak sauce was needed, just a delicious juicy steak, my mouth is watering just thinking about it again!

It didn't last long that is for sure!

We all tried to save room for desert, I mean they had some awesome looking deserts, highlighted by the Chocolate Stampede, but we just were stuffed by our main entrees! We will definitely be back to try some of those deserts next time!

The building was beautiful, the server was great, the Manager was very nice, it was a top shelf restaurant all the way around. The girls enjoyed their time coloring and of course they loved the free bread!

This campaign has been a blast to take part in! As part of it I got Grilling Tips Fact Sheet that gave me a few tips to keep my grilling game on point. Then I got an official set of LongHorn signature steak knives. Those are awesome, big, bold and super sharp! They went through some pork chops i grilled like it was butter!

If you get a chance this Father's Day to take a Steakcation from the grill, head to LongHorn Steakhouse, because Dad's you are a Cut Above the Rest!

A new blog post?

So I haven't written in a long time, but guess what?! I have written something!  To read my latest thoughts head on over to The Daily Wolf and read my post Risking the Future for Wins Today.

Risking the Future for Wins Today by Jace Denman